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We are all guilty of it at some point. In fact, we are so guilty of it that it is even a bit expected. This is the most common reason that we talk about our relationships, our jobs, our friends, or our health.
The problem is we talk about them all the time and fail to take a good look at ourselves.
No, but seriously, we’re all guilty of it. When it comes to relationships, we talk about our exes, our spouses, and our friends. We are so busy talking about them that we fail to take a good look at ourselves.
The truth is that a lot of us (and a lot of people) need to look in the mirror. In fact, we need to take a good look at our behaviors so that we can help ourselves change. The problem is we tend to take it all for granted that our past behaviors are the problem and need to change. After all, we are the ones who used to be the problem and need to change. This isn’t always the case though.
The problem is the same problem that plagues so many people – we are so busy talking to ourselves that we forget to examine our actions. We may forget that we have a choice to make and can choose to do something different. A good example is the one you may have heard about – the person who has a problem with their ex-spouse. This person has to talk to themselves about why they are so afraid to talk to their ex-spouse.
Again, this is something we are often afraid to do. The reason why this happens is because we are used to thinking we are the problem. We are used to thinking that we are the one to fix all of our problems so we don’t have to worry about anything. This is a lie. There is always a solution for a problem, but the fact that we don’t see it doesn’t mean we aren’t trying.
This happens to some extent because we are afraid of losing our relationships. If you are in a relationship and someone you love suddenly disappears, you have to question yourself, “Who did I just lose?” You end up talking to yourself about how much you want the person back, and if you never see them again your whole life is ruined.
We all want to believe that the person we love is still with us, but we end up being afraid of losing them because the truth is our fear is the reason we never see that person again. That is why we are afraid of relationships.
I have a friend who is in a relationship with her husband. One day the two of them went to a restaurant and she was talking to him. Suddenly, he disappeared. She ended up talking to herself in the kitchen and saying, “I’m not going to see him again”. Her husband’s friend came over and they were like, “Oh my gosh, why are you telling me this?”.
dolor de muela is a Spanish slang term for sexual harassment, but it’s also a term for a medical condition in which something or someone is causing you to not want to be with them anymore. Because you will not be able to have a relationship with them, you become very afraid of them. You’re afraid that because you have these fears that they’ll just disappear.
